Today is a milestone day for me. It’s a milestone because it was 5 years ago today that I sued my 20+year mate for divorce and started a new life. It’s a milestone because that was a time of great uncertainty and wondering where I’d be in 5 years and if I’d “make it.” I wasn’t running to anyone romantically-I was on my own and stood to lose everything, including my children and home, but I also stood to gain everything.
In the 5 years that have passed, I’ve busted a lot of myths. These were told to me by my ex, yes, as you might guess. But I also heard many of these from family who loved me and friends who supported me.
- A divorce won’t solve your misery: you can’t be happy.
- Expecting a man to be a romantic is unrealistic.
- I understand you better than…READ MORE
Grats on breaking through these myths! Been there, done that myself.
I remember that time. Wow, Lorna! I’m so proud of you!!! Sending hugs!
These sound horribly familiar. It’s been many years since I traveled that road but I remember hearing the darndest things from those who should have been supporting me.
I need to focas on God and give my life on him. The more I obey him, pray to him, and read his word, the closer I will come to him.
Good for you. But don’t just tell yourself what you “need to” do–if those are your convictions, go do it.